Unblocking Blockages עיכובים .

"כל העיכובים צא ממני"

"All blockages in my life should now go away from my soul"

Introduction - "The Key" of your life

To open an enormous door, you only need a tiny key. To solve a baffling mystery, you only need a small clue. In the midst of problems and blockages of ones life, it often seems as if something vast and daunting is preventing and blocking you from making progress. Naturally enough, you are contemplating that you are going to need "big" moves.

Yet all you really require is a little piece of information. A word or two from the right person. This "key" is small and simple, this "key of knowledge and information" is the ONLY thing you need to open the door. Very often in our lives, all we need is to change our attitudes and thoughts in our mind, and suddenly brighteness, enlightenment and fulfillment become the norm in ones life. No more sadness, depression or blockages in the flow of lifes energy.

The "door" is the "blockage" and the "key" to the unlock the blockage is the correct "thought". "A single thought has the power to change the whole world" is indeed the fundamental principle of CHANGE from the Sefer Shinuyim - Book of Changes. A single thought is the key to open the door to enlightenment.

The solution to removal of any blockage is to find "the key" to open "the door", and remember to USE the "key", there is no point in learning, having the right thoughts or being given the right information if one refuses to use the "key" and change! Always remember that:-

Every Door Has a Key

Every Problem Has a Solution

Accepting that the blockages that occur in our lives - occur for a reason, we need to look at the categories of "blockages" in order to identify which type of "key" we need to use to unblock the flow of lifes energy. The 7 main blockages are as follows:-

1. עיכובי נשמה - Blocks from ones Soul, as we explain on the page Blocking Success that our own soul causes our own blocks, we create situations in our lives which block our "life energy". The reason we do this is in order to push ourselves to change our lifestyle and attitudes from a materialistic physical existence into a meaningful spiritual life. These are often known as spiritual gifts of "waking up", we usually only "wake up" our mind and thoughts when we have blockages and problems in our physical materialistic life.

Once a person has woken up spiritually, as we have explained on the "blocking" page, then there is no longer a need for "blocks" to exist and they are automatically dissolved and taken away.

2. עיכובי חליפין - Blocks of "transference" from others. These blockages have been created by other peoples negativity, and they have a power to block our lives because WE have given away our souls power to someone else, who in turn uses the energy to block our life. This is known as Loss by "Transference", these people are acting as instruments of ones souls energy to block ones life, in order to teach us spiritual lessons.

The simple solution is to learn to STOP Loss by "Transference", learn Closure from such negative interactions, and stop diverting ones souls energy into something that "is not yours" , don't get involved in something or with someone that is simply not your "destiny".

3. עיכובי יוֹם - Blocks created "daily" - "Temporary Blockages", these blocks happen to guide us with small signs, on a day-to-day occurence, very often these blocks dissappate after a day. In most cases these are signs to tell a person to STOP ones physical actions and think spiritually for a day. We all need a "spiritual resting day", and if a person feels that nothing is "going right" today, it is simply a sign to rest and think spiritually, instead of "getting" on with materialistic life. Everyone who listens to these signs from their soul, and takes a rest day, using this to think "spiritually" will actually find themselves remarkably "recharged" and "energised".

4. Blockages created by ones soul, to act as SIGNS to change ones life ! As we explain on the pages of Blocking Success, Fear of Success, No Money and Depression, all blockages that are created by negative emotions can be easily unblocked by positive emotions of love and compassion.

A blockage is created as a sign to help a person CHANGE from a life of fear, hate, jealousy and other destructive emotions to a constructive, creative, loving and positive life. Once a person has found the right pathway, there is no longer any need for the sign or blockage.

5. עיכובי גלגול Blockages created by ones soul in order to deal with issues of "reincarnation", the need to learn lessons of change, love and forgiveness. Perfecting mistakes one has made in previous lifetime, is the reason why inexplicable "blockages" occur at anytime in ones life.

Our souls have come to earth to learn specific lessons, blockages in our life are created to force and channel our soul to perfecting itself by understanding the signs and changing, specific to each unique individual. The first step is to recognise that nothing happens by "chance" and everything, however inexplicable and painful has a reason why it happnes in ones life.

As our soul learns its unique and specific lessons then the "blockage" is taken away, and our soul will feel enlightened. A person always feels good when they have worked to change their attitude to life, opening up spiritually with a true life of LOVE and trust in GOD with compassion.

6. The "Negative-Parent" Blockage

The most important and significant of all blockages are those of deep negative emotions of bitterness and hatred created by EVIL PARENTS on their "unwanted" children from the moment they are conceived into this world .

Sefer Shinuyim - The Book of Changes describes these good souls who are born with evil parents as extremely gifted and sensitive souls. These souls have taken the challenge to be born with parents where there is tremendous hatred, bitterness, abuse and negative emotions. The challenge for such good souls, is to disconnect themselves and learn Closure from such "evil" parents and learn from their experiences how NOT to behave.

When a person experiences the affects of negative emotions, it is such a good teacher of life, as such a person will polarise their behaviour from such evil people, knowing how "not to behave", they usually become very compassionate loving and kind people or sadly some actually become abusers themselves, believing the only way to live is by the bad example of their parents, as modern day pyschology teaches "only an abused person - abuses others", and sayings "like father like son, like mother like daughter" then apply.

In this section we shall explain:-

(a) The explanation from the Talmud and "Book of Changes", "Why a good person has bad things happening?" - that they are children of "bad" parents, and what is a "bad parent" in spiritual terms.

(b) How to break the negative cycle and STOP bad things happening to good people. Teaching how imperative it is for a good and sensitive person to be "closed" from "freeloaders" negative influences.

Learning how to have 100% closure from negative influences, learning to connect with good influences, therby unblocking the flow of lifes energy and enable only good things to happen in ones life with no blockages. Understanding the key to an "unblocked" life is LOVE and compassion.

 

(a) "Why does a good person have bad things happening to them ?"

The talmud explains the fundamental reason why a good person has bad things happening to them and why they seem to have such " bad luck" in life, and the reason why so much of what they do is thwarted with so much sadness and dissappointment in their lives, is because of a lack of LOVE and COMPASSION in their lives.

Love and compassion are the creative constructive energies that GOD created and continues to sustain everything in the universe. We are all created by acts of LOVE, we are all sustained by LOVE. If one has blockages in lifes energy or bad things happening, then the root cause is a blockage in the creative life energy of LOVE.

The Start of Life

As we explained on the "Introduction" page from the Famous Rebbe Reb Yehonosson Eibeshitz in his book Yaaros Devash , that the identity is defined by the START. If the start was with honesty - it is destined to succeed, if the start was deceitful it will fail.

This is true with respect to every persons life, if the START, that is, the conception was between 2 destined soulmates who love and loved each other and made love with each other from a desire to bring a soul / child into this world, this is the best positive loving start a person can have. If, however, the adults were indulging their selfish sexual desires and the pregnancy was an "accident", which later becomes a resented child, this child has started life, with lots of negative emotions and a significant blockage of lifes energy of LOVE.

"Unwanted children" become "hated children"

Negative blockages are created by the hatred of EVIL parents on their "unwanted" and yet good children, this infuses an energy into these children making them בנים שׁנוּאים "hated children". So long as there are negative emotions of bitterness, resentment and hatred this will BLOCK the creative and success energy for the child.

Parental blockages of hatred and bitterness created by the parents resentment for their own children. As many selfish "parents" only wanted "sex" to satisfy their animalistic sexual desires. They resent finding out they are pregnant and therefore the child to be born is a "hated child", who starts this world surrounded by negativity, hatred and resentment. These negative emotions create such a blockage that the child will be "blocked" until they unblock this blockage later on in their lives, usually during a "mid-life" crisis, when they realise that all their lives they have been allowing the same abusively selfish draining type of people in their lives who keep taking advantage of them.

In our "modern" generation, there are many children born into relationships of parents who wanted selfish sex, and resented the pregnancy of the child. Ofcourse, some parents stay together for the sake of the child, however, this pretend "family" is only living a lie and deceiving themselves by damaging the childrens' soul in staying together amidst bitterness, anger and resentment.

Or, the selfish parents are quite happy together, they just resent the "burden" of looking after a child they never wanted. All throughout the childs upbringing, this sensitive child will feel unwanted, but be unable to leave home. We explain in (b) below how to break the cycle and disconnect from such draining hateful and abusively selfish parents.

Being born into such an abusive family, with lack of love and good energy, with a massive number of blocks, is compared to a river with lots of blocks. One simply needs to learn why each one is there, take it away and eliminate it from the pathway of the river flow. As a child grows up and works on each aspect of ones soul to change, becoming more compassionate and loving, then becoming loved by others for their goodness, kindness and creativity, then these blocks are taken away and the flow of lifes energy can flow smoothly.

Unless, ofcourse the young adult returns home or "allows in" the destructive parents, or people like their parents, who will only negate and destroy everything they have created - we discuss this on the "mid-life" section7 below, the reason these problems reoccur in "mid-life" is due to the fact the adult has not completely cleared away all the negative boulders of negative emotional blockages from the "river flow"of ones life.

 

The Explanation from the Talmud

צדיק ורע לו, צדיק בן רשע

"A good person who has bad luck, blockages and misfortune -

is simply a good person who is a child of a wicked parent "

The Talmud Brochos 7a ברכות דף ז.

ברכות דף ז.
ואמר רבי יוחנן משום רבי יוסי: שלשה דברים בקש משה מלפני הקב"ה, ונתן לו... בקש להודיעו דרכיו של
הקב"ה, ונתן לו, שנאמר: 'הודיעני נא את דרכיך'. אמר לפניו: רבש"ע, מפני מה יש צדיק וטוב לו ויש צדיק ורע
לו, יש רשע וטוב לו ויש רשע ורע לו? אמר לו: משה, צדיק וטוב לו, צדיק בן צדיק. צדיק ורע לו, צדיק בן רשע.
רשע וטוב לו, רשע בן צדיק, רשע ורע לו, רשע בן רשע; אמר מר: 'צדיק וטוב לו, צדיק בן צדיק, צדיק ורע לו,
צדיק בן רשע'. איני?!... אלא הכי קאמר ליה: צדיק וטוב לו, צדיק גמור, צדיק ורע לו, צדיק שאנ גמור. רשע
וטוב לו, רשע שאינו גמור, רשע ורע לו, רשע גמור. ופליגא דר' מאיר, דא"ר מאיר: שתיים ניתנו לו, ואחת לא
נתנו לו, שנאמר: 'וחנתי את אשר אחון', אע"פ שאינו הגון, 'ורחמתי את אשר ארחם', אע"פ שאינו הגון"

The challenge for a good person who is the child of a wicked parent is to perfect themselves and NOT to emulate their parents ways. If one resembles any of the negative emotions of ones evil parents, the destructive energy of ones parents can still block ones good fortune, even if one has left ones parents home. The challenge for such children is to be 100% closed from their abusive, draining and destructive evil parents, and disown their evil ways.

צדיק ורע לו, צדיק שאינו גמור

"A good person who has bad luck, blockages and misfortune

is a good person who is NOT 100% wholesome, and is not 100% closed.

According to Sefer Shinuyim who quotes the commentary Maharsha, the choice of word by the Talmud is צדיק ורע לו, צדיק שאינו גמור , the hebrew word גמור actually means CLOSED. The reason therefore that a person has misfortune and blockages is that he/she is NOT 100% closed to negative influences.

The solution is to learn to be 100% Closed to such people and refuse any interaction with bad influences, refuse to allow any loss by "transference", then learn how to transform to have a focus on being a refined character of love and compassion. This is simply making a complete change of character from the character one was brought up with, by such horrible selfish parents. Then one will become a

צדיק וטוב לו, צדיק גמור

"A good person who has good luck, with no blockages, is a good person who is 100% wholesome, and is 100% closed to negative people and negative influences.

 

(b) How to break the negative cycle and STOP bad things happening to good people.

The Talmud Brochos 7a ברכות דף ז. , as quoted above explains how to break the cycle of bad things happening to a good person.

Firstly one needs to be 100% Closed both physically and spiritually to anything or anyone that is draining on ones soul. As we explain on the Protection page, everything is classified as either DEAD or ALIVE, the challenge is to see and sense the "DEAD" and keep closed to such deadly draining energies and people.

Secondly to always focus on LIFE energy and everything that GOD has created in this amazingly vast and beautiful universe. By being connected with a LIFE and a LOVE energy of GOD, automatically one is enlivened. Similarly connecting with good people, who are full of LOVE and compassion will energise a person positively.

Whenever one feels any negative emotions of hate or bitterness, immediately STOP and think of something LOVING and GOOD. Try to understand the goodness in everything that has happend, if one can even see and find reason to THANK GOD for all the bad things that have happend, then this will BREAK the negative cycle in ones life and unblock the flow of lifes good energy.

Replacing hateful parents with "love"

Those unwanted and abused children born with rotten selfish parents, will need to recognise that the lack of energy in their lives is simply due to the lack of LOVE in their lives.

By learning to use ones mind to generate love, whether it be love of good friends, or of good people one can respect, or of a LOVE of animals, plants or anything created by GOD that has a natural beauty, like the stars and moon that shine at night, even listen to the birds chirping (the "Sefer Shinuyim" explains that the birds chirping is actually a Divine energy that is talking to our souls, by listening to the birds chirping we are listening to heavenly voices), all these can generate the natural pure spiritual love that is missing from ones life.

LOVE energy is so much more powerful than hate, as LOVE energy is a created energy from GOD, so that one loving thought dissolves 1000's of hateful thoughts.

Feeling Isolated and Alienated?

Do you have feelings that you are struggling to survive? All alone, without love and no one seems to be interested in your life?

According to the teachings we have learnt, without LOVE in ones life, one should be DEAD. Indeed being single, alone and isolated makes a person feel "down and depressed", nontheless a person is still ALIVE. The reason is that GOD, the DIVINE energy of LOVE and ones GUARDIAN ANGELS come close to you with LOVE and support.

When a person realises that technically one should be dead, as one lacks the life energy of "love" in ones life, but in fact one is alive this is thanks to the DIVINE compassion and creative life energy of LOVE from GOD and Spirit World. Then one immediately becomes invigourated, enlivened, with a sense of humility, out of honour and respect that ones Guardian Angels are here to protect, love and support YOU.

With this knowledge and spiritual thought, one is now connecting to life energy of GOD, use this to remain connected by thinking of EVERYTHING in the universe created by GOD, the Sun, Moon, planets, stars in the sky, plants, flowers, animals, birds and fish. Think of every limb, bone and cell in ones body that is working perfectly and healthily, then focus on everything good one has - with sincere gratitude and THANK GOD .

When a person connects with the DIVINE pure energy of LOVE and compassion, then one is connecting with LIFE, not just physical life energy but an invigourating spiritual radiant glow of eternal life energy. Ones soul now feels enlivened with a sense of purpose and connection.

As we explained on the Sensitive souls page, these feelings of isolation and lonliness are specific spiritual signs identifying the good quality of ones soul and a need to search for ones true connections and true purpose in life.

 

A Wholesome Character

The Talmud explains the way to develope a wholesome character is to learn to be gracious and compassionate, emulating the ways of GOD, from Exodus chapter 34, GOD tells Moses how to have a perfect character

'וחנתי את אשר אחון', אע"פ שאינו הגון,

"I will be gracious to whom I will be gracious,

even though they are not deserving"

'ורחמתי את אשר ארחם', אע"פ שאינו הגון"

"and will show mercy on whom I will show mercy

even though they are not deserving"

and I will show mercy & compassion

on whomsoever shows mercy & compassion.

A wholesome and perfect character has no seperate "departments" of how to behave to different types of people, a wholesome person behaves with the same compassion and loving behaviour to everyone.

If a person can be nice and charming to one person and aggressive or hateful to another person, then such a person has not perfected ones character. The highest achievement a person can have in this world, is to emulate the ways of GOD, and to show compassion and unconditional love to all of the creations of GOD.

Naturally to those who have proven themselves to deny the existence of GOD or those whom are destructively hateful, one needs to learn Closure from these people, however the lessons of closure are so that one is NOT influenced by their bad behaviour. However, when a person is wholesome and compassionately loving, hopefully these people will learn from ones good spiritual example and change!

All compassionate people pray for those who deny existence of GOD and Spirit world, as they feel sorry with a Divine compassion that these people lack the knowledge, feeling and spiritual experience in their lives. This is the message of the Torah to Moses, learn to be compassionate and gracious to EVERYONE, even though they do not deserve ! As they will be touched by spirit and change their ways, if not in this world then eventually in Spirit world they will see the truth.

As we explain on the page of Compassion - Oneness, in the same way the SUN energises the world, a truly compassionate spiritual person has the gift of energy-flow from GOD to energise other people with a sincere LOVE and spiritual compassion without being drained, as they are simply a meduim of flowing energy from GOD to humanity just like the Sun, the more compassionate and closer to the DIVINE oneness, the more loving life-giving compassionate energy flows through a person.

 

7 . The "Mid-Life" blockage, changing course in the middle of ones life, or dealing with the blocks that have been there for a long time

As we explain on the page of CHANGE, in the 7 stages of ones life, most people will experience a "mid-life" crisis, although the correct wording is "midlife" opportunity of amazing energy to change the course of ones life.

When one has decided to change course completely, then one will experience a complete BLOCKAGE, like building a dam to hold back the flow of water. If one has decided on a complete change, then everything may seem to go wrong ! Relationship, marriage break-up, illness, work, financial problems, all these signs are perfectly normal, just indications that one was on the wrong pathway, and now EVERYTHING has to be cleared out before one can start a new life !

Even if you haven't made a decision to change anything, it can be you have special DIVINE intervention in your life, where everything "goes wrong", this is simply a sign that one is spiritually guided and one is going to be making changes for the better, dont fight the changes and allow everything that is no longer needed in your life to leave, in order to allow everything good and new to come in. The transitional period may make a person feel very fragile, as the flow of "life energy" may seem to be blocked, in reality it is waiting to flow to you ONCE you have made the changes and are on the correct pathway for your soul.

Once a person has accomplished a completely new change then like the DAM, the flow of life energy will be opened to allow all the saved energy to flow to the NEW route and direction of ones life. Only when a person has made all the correct disconnections and ready for a new life, then the flow of lifes energy with flow, and the blockages taken away.

If, however during the "mid-life" crisis years, one is simply making some minor adjustments and small refinements to ones life, by removing any boulders of blockages that one has allowed to remain in the way for many years, there will be no noticeable blockage or "upheavel" in ones life, just a pleasant relief once the blockage is cleared.

How to "unblock"

The act of unblocking is simple, say :-

"כל העיכובים צא ממני"

"All blockages in my life should now go away from my soul"

Whilst saying this, think of all the people and situations in ones life that have blocked ones success, all the hateful people, all the jealous friends, spiteful work colleagues, ex boyfriends, ex girlfriends, ex husbands and ex wives, also include all the people whom have said nasty words against you that have destroyed your self confidence and then : -

Send all of them thoughts of

LOVE and COMPASSION

Pray for them, understand that they only behaved the way they did because they did not believe in GOD or Spirit World, and they simply do not know how to behave kindly or spiritually. Think of ALL those people whom have hurt you and think of them with LOVING and COMPASSIONATE thoughts.

This is the easiest way to "let go" of their negative blocks that have been created in your life. Ofcourse, disconnect and have Closure, from these negative and destructive people, but let them go, disconnect completely, put them out of your mind and your life with loving thoughts. Holding onto to bitterness with negative emotions of hate will only block your life. So disconnect, send thoughts of love and compassion for their soul, as they have not been lucky to be blessed to find the spiritual truth of GOD and Spirit world.

Simply "feel sorry" for their soul, as they only behaved the way they have done because of ignorance, fear and lack of respect of GOD. Eventually their soul is held accountable, that is THEIR problem, not yours, simply use the power of your thoughts and soul to disconnect from them by sending them "feel sorry" loving and compassionate thoughts. These people have nothing in common with you or your spiritual enlightened pathway, so forgive their misdeeds and disconnect with love and compassion.

"Its Not My Problem"

Very often, blockages in the true destiny of a persons life is caused by the fact that bad and draining people dump their problems on good sensitive people. The simple solution is to constantly say in ones mind and thoughts "Its not my problem". My repeating this honestly , ones soul is awakened to recognised that one is living the wrong life energy by constant interaction with draining people. Within a few days of saying "Its Not My Problem", it is guarenteed spiritually that one true souls purpose and life energy is restored to ones life.

 

Conclusion - A Blockage

Is it a "SIGN" or a "TEST" ?

Before making any changes in ones life one always needs to be honest and ask :- Is the Blockage, a sign that one should NOT pursue that way in life OR is it a TEST to see how determined one is ? If one has tried 3 times and still not succeeded, then this is a sign there is a major "BLOCKAGE", that one needs to analyse the root cause of the blockage to the flow of ones life energy.

The solution is simple by being closed to negative and draining influences that one has allowed into ones life, searching and returning to find ones true "destiny", and connecting to the DIVINE energy of LOVE by focusing on positive, purposeful, loving and compassionate spiritual life.

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"The Pathway" to enlightenment

This page is part of our new second section called "THE PATHWAY" taken from Sefer Shinuyim - Book of Change and Sefer Tikunim - The book of Corrections, this section explains with a small key of knowledge, one will have the ability to transform and change ones thoughts and heal ones soul. This is the reason every person came to this earth - to CHANGE.

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