עיכובים Blockages "Ikuvim"

On this page we shall discuss the 3 main types of עיכובים "Blockages".

Blockages, obstacles and difficulties in life are absolutely essential, however frustrating they maybe, they are vital to in order ensure our ultimate success for our soul, in accomplishing the purpose we have been given the gift of life and came to "earths school" to learn and grow spiritually .

1. עיכובי נשמה - Blocks from ones Soul

Blockages that each individual soul has decreed upon themselves, which acts to "force" the person to accomplish a task before the blockage is removed. This type of block is special as it is easiest to handle as each person has been given the exact energy and power to UNBLOCK their own lives and release the frustration and stagnation in ones life .

2. עיכובי חליפין - Blocks of "transference" from others

Blockages caused by other people, this type of block is caused by negative thoughts, such as hatred, jealousy, fear and depression. These blocks are given power to block someone else's life, caused by "transference" energy, a person has "given away" a power to others to cause destruction and blockages in that persons life. This type of block is even easier to unblock, by not allowing "transference energy" and having closure from "freeloaders".

3. עיכובי יוֹם - Blocks created "daily"

Blockages caused and created daily by ones own negative thoughts, fears, depression, laziness, hatred and jealousy of others. These blocks are easier to unblock as they simply need a change in attitude in a persons mind and soul to dissolve the negative energy of the block.

 

1. עיכובי נשמה - Blocks from ones own Soul

As we discussed on the page of "DESTINY", the basic principle and intrinsic foundation, belief and knowledge in our life on earth is that our physical existence is merely a way to transport our spiritual soul . Our soul needs to be able to learn the lessons and experiences in this physical life on planet earth, and hence the soul needs to travel on earth in a physical body .

We have pre-programmed our soul before we arrived on earth with certain situations and experiences that we wished to teach our soul by personal and sometimes painful experience . Once we have accomplished successfully a particular aspect of our souls well needed transformation, then a block is removed.

It is well known in many peoples lives that after a separation from an abusive parent or relative or freeloading friend, complete disconnection or even a divorce or when a person leaves a draining materialistic and non spiritual situation, a spiritual release and block is removed from a persons soul.

Reading the signs

A person soul is continually receiving energy, but if one is in the "wrong place" and connected with the "wrong people", then a safety mechanism of עיכובי נשמה - "Blocks" from ones own Soul, comes to protect oneself.

If a person has "bad luck", feels drained, or any type of loss or sadness, these are all signs that one is connected to the wrong situation. If there are repetitive signs of destructive loss, in any situation this should NOT be ignored. One needs to look at the signs, and take immediate ACTION, otherwise it will get worse, until one does "WAKE UP" and change.

Everyone has a destined source of income to always provide food, a home and have a loving perfect soulmate

If anyone does not have any one of these then the person MUST consider this an EMERGENCY, an URGENT sign to change. As we explained on the page of "DESTINY" the spiritual laws of this life on earth, is that we all have these destined "pieces of the puzzle" of our life to find in order to find wholesomeness.

If one has tried and failed, then this is considered a BLOCKAGE from ones soul. There is an individual and personal message that a person needs to learn, in order to clear the particular blockage in their life. By thinking carefully and analyzing the signposts that they have ignored in life, the solution will easily present itself.

The LOVE - SOULMATE Blockage

With respect to SOULMATE and finding true LOVE particularly for our generation, many worried parents, boys and girls ask me, what are they doing "wrong" that they don't seem to find anyone suitable to love and who will love them ?

This is not be such a big question or blockage as it seems, the problem with young men and women in our generation, is that have not grown up, making the transition from selfish childhood to creative selfless adulthood, as we discuss on "Stages of Change".

The blockage in their life is the fact that their soul is blocked to "TRUE LOVE". By definition, true love is the desire to create energy with someone by giving without any desire to receive in return. True love is a selfless act of loving kindness . This is in sharp contrast to the selfish, animal instinct, self-satisfaction of sexual and aggressive desire for love.

The way to unblock this significant block of finding ones true loving soulmate is to CHANGE ones attitude to LOVE, LOVE should be a selfless desire to want to give and be kind, creating loving energy with ones true soulmate.

"Have you ever loved someone unconditionally ?"

When adults in their 20's and 30's come and ask my advice, complaining to me that they have never found their true love - soulmate. I ask them "HAVE YOU EVER LOVED SOMEONE UNCONDITIONALLY ?"

The answer is always the same - NO ! They have either come from a family of abusive parents or parents who never showed a good example of love. All children observe and take note of their parents, if their parents never charmed each other, by showing signs of love and affection at home, for example, calling their spouses with names of affection like "Honey" and "Sweettie", ( or even "shatzlie" which is the yiddish word "darling") then the children will see this. ( and there is no need to say, the appalling damage done on a child, when parents shout, argue, disregard, ignore or abuse each other in a loveless marriage, as we discussed the concept of selfish and "rotten" parents on the "debrainwashing" page of this website)

The LOVE blockage is created and the child will never be able to show or verbalize words of LOVE and affection, and if one cannot show love, then one cannot receive or create love.

A 35 year old "confirmed" bachelor finds love!

In understanding this love blockage, 5 years ago, i gave good advice ( and continue to give the same advice to any single person) to a very well-mannered, pleasant 35 year old "confirmed" bachelor, who came from parents who were cold-hearted and never showed any love or affection. I suggested he should get a CAT !

Within 6 weeks, his heart had opened up, which cleared his "love blockage", by feeding, caring and loving this cat, this opened up his heart and soul to LOVE. Within those 6 weeks, he met his wife and now they have a lovely son in a loving relationship. This was NO miracle, simply the man learnt instinctively to UNBLOCK the LOVE blockage !

Once the blockage had been taken away, he was able to LOVE, his true soulmate was ready to enter his life. As an anecdote to this story, they had both seen each other a few years before this, but she thought he was cold and withholding, which did not appeal to her ! What a change he had made !

This suggestion to care for a cat, was taken from Sefer Shinuyim which teaches that anyone who wants to learn how to be loving and compassionate should look after animals, like Moshe, King David, Rabbi Akiva and all the great leaders were shepherds and farmers.

This example applies to all blockages and signs of misfortune, there is a direct link and correlation to everything that happens in our lives. Once we learn to focus on aspects of life such as Life of Love , Life of Compassion and of Selfless Service , changing our nature and learning the lessons of life will automatically UNBLOCK every blockage in our lives .

Remember, the main reason we have a BLOCKAGE in our lives is because our soul placed the block in the way, in order that we should learn the necessary lessons. Once the lessons are learnt, the block is taken away, and a release of tension and negative energy leaves a vacuum for happiness and good fortune to enter ones life.

{ During Summer of 2005, we shall be uploading to www.sefershinuyim.com and www.tikunim.com all the different kinds of blockages and the way to unblock. }

 

2. עיכובי חליפין - Blocks of "transference" created by other people

Firstly please read the page of the principle of Loss by "transference" - חליפין . Understanding "transference" it is easy to see that once another person has got YOUR energy, they now have the power to BLOCK events your life.

This blockage is troublesome, especially if the people you have given your power and energy to by "transference" do not want to help or support you any longer, but in fact want to destroy your ambitions, dreams and goals. They even have the power to block your true "DESTINY".

Unblocking the "transference blockage"

There are 2 reasons why this blockage exists:-

1. Your soul needs to learn lesson of disconnection with "horrible" people. Firstly one needs to identify these people, who are blocking your life, and disconnect from them by learning and having "Closure" . As we explain on the page teaching "Unblocking" , any emotion, either of love, hatred or jealousy will keep a person attached to that draining destructive blockage.

By learning to have complete closure, your forgiveness to them and complete disconnection from these people whom are creating "blocks" in your life. Which includes getting rid of any gifts that they gave you, and anything that reminds you of them, hence the tradition to get rid of any marriage presents when a divorce happens.

2. Previous lifetime blockages . These blockages have been carried over from one lifetime to the next, in order that a person deals with the disconnection and forgiveness in this lifetime.

Once the link is broken and "out-of-your-life" forever, even if they still want to try and block your life with their hatred energy, they have NO longer any energy or power to block your life. This is one reason why people enjoy going away on holidays or going away to Yeshiva / College to learn , as this helps to give a temporary disconnection from ones family, as often their are blocks created by family members, whom have reincarnated together to learn lessons.

The solution to the "transference blockage" is to learn the lessons of complete "Closure". By letting go and disconnecting, this will negate the hatred and nullify any affect on you, (sadly though this destructive energy created by those hateful people rebounds to them and they end up suffering the pain they wished for you, but remember "that is their problem") . This is the spiritual law of Eliyahu "as a person wishes for others - so it happens for them" .

The next stage of "unblocking" is to ask yourself why you allowed yourself to be blocked by someone else. There is a lesson for you to learn, what is it in your character that allowed you to "give away" your energy to someone else, who abused and turned against you ? Maybe you have betrayed someone in the past ? and need to learn the lesson of honesty in relationships with yourself and others or simply to learn the lesson of closure from "rotten people".

The simple answer is to learn to CHANGE, forgive everyone, no matter what they have done to you . By accepting the situation, having closure on that part of your life, letting go of the past, one can then move forward to a lovely happy life of compassion and love with creative and purposeful goals.

Remembering, that "its their problem" if they have a bad nature and bad attitude to life or towards you, "Its not you", it's not your problem to change them or to be responsible for their problems.

www.sefershinuyim.com and www.tikunim.com explains fully all the different kinds of transference types blockages, their reasons and the way to unblock them.

3. עיכובי יוֹם - Blocks created "daily"

These are the easiest to handle as they have the least energy. The "daily" blockage עיכובי יוֹם, is something small, like a traffic jam, flight delay, a road blockage, a burst water pipe, a puncture etc., a temporary delay or obstacle that will be removed automatically within the day. In our interactive world, these type of blockages could be caused by other people or the weather or ones own silly mistakes.

Nonetheless these blockages also contain signs, and are not to be ignored as they help to "refine" our character, learning lessons in life. For most people, these blockages are minor signposts and always pass within a day.

Unless this negative blockage is added to the negative images and has joined the "HUGE DUMP" a collection of negative experiences in your mind . The single blockage has no real power, but as it joins the DUMP of negative thoughts and blockages, it has power to depress and annoy you, forcing you to take a serious look at your life's pathway. ( As we explained in the Debrainwashing page.)

 

Conclusion

... אין חוּט של מחט נוֹגע בך אלא אם כן נגזר עליך מלמעלה

Remembering that spiritual law "Nothing happens by accident". Everything happens in our lives for a reason . "Not even a pin prick can touch or harm a person - unless it is decreed upon in spirit world " . A blockage in the flow of our lives is a SIGN and has a reason. It is for us to learn, teach our own soul and understand the lessons to learn in each blockage in our lives.

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Below is the important lesson of the "Money Blockage" :-

 

Is Your SOUL Blocking Your Abundance?

Are you suffering from terminal financial lack?  Do you feel frustrated that after months or even years of applying positive affirmation, visualization and other "new age" spiritual techniques, you still live paycheck-to-paycheck, unable to support yourself and your life?  Unable to create something useful and purposeful in life ? Always feeling life is such a struggle and "just about sunk" ?

We are not "living in the present" or "heart-connected" to Earth

Let’s begin with an explanation of being "living in the present" and "heart-connected" to Earth.  What does that mean?  Simply, it means being happy, being grateful that you are here on Earth.  It means that you love being here and there is no place you’d rather be.  This is your home!  And that you LOVE being exactly where you are at this EXACT present moment in time. You have no desires to be somewhere else other than where you are right NOW !

This is a challenge for dissatisfied and "complaining-type" people, who are always jealous of others and depressed of the things they "don't have", ( instead of being happy with what they "do have" ). These people are trying to find anyway possible, even "spiritual" answers to improve their materialistic life, and are living in hope and prayer that they will be able to leave their current place. They are NOT living at this moment, they are "somewhere else"

This is an even more real challenge for spiritually minded people, for people who have no materialistic care for the place where they are currently living because they know intuitively that Earth is not their home. The big pretend "spiritual" fear they share is that if they do get attached to being here, they will not be able to go home when their mission is done.  In other words, they will be trapped here on this planet in either a state of Earthbound in Olam Hasohu, far from their real loved ones and their spiritual-home world.  This is a fate worse than death for spiritually minded elevated souls. 

For those for whom Earth is home, the issue of heart connection stems from not being willing to accept Earth and all that is happening to her as being of value or being okay.  They are so in judgment of the pollution, the inhumanity of man, the decline of moral values, etc. that they refuse to embrace the planet with LOVE.  In other words, their judgment of Earth’s present state makes them unwilling to totally embrace her.  An analogy would be one’s unwillingness to embrace and commit to a lover 100% because he/she has had a terrible injury that paralyzed or horribly disfigured part of his/her body.  We let what we see deter us from opening our hearts completely to commit and love this person. 

There is also a third scenario here and that is people who may or may not have an issue with being on Earth but prefer to spend the majority of their time in the other realms, in a imaginary world of dreams, fantasies, television or films, or even in the spiritual world of Angels . Their passion is being “out there”, they prefer talking to angels and guides rather than people and is preventing them living in the real world, the reason our soul was born and made to live on this planet.

 

Your abundance is where your heart is

For those who have acknowledged that they have done one of the above, let me share with you one more clincher for convincing me to get heart connected to Earth and to become happy to live in this present moment in time. 

Sefer Shinuyim explains that the universe, the great provider of all things, is like the "Postal Service" only more efficient. It will only deliver your mail/abundance to your mailbox.  Your mailbox is where your heart is, and your heart is where you passion is. If your heart is in another dimension or realm that is where the universe will deliver your abundance. 

You see, your prayers are being answered and always work but your abundance is not being delivered to your mailbox on Earth.  This means that that true soulmate, good health, children, new house, new car, (and that million-dollar lottery check!) has been delivered to your mailbox in the dimension where you heart is located.  So if you want your abundance to be delivered to the realm in which you currently reside, place your mailbox and your heart there.

"Blocking Signs" from Spirit world

So when you and I resist being connected to Earth, our Soul believes that we are resisting being here.  They interpret our actions as abandonment. When this occurs the soul will take steps to prevent us from leaving, just like a physical child afraid of a parent leaving will block the door or throw a "temper-tantrum" to keep the parent with him/her.  We experience this blocking in several ways: 

The Soul makes no differentiation between money, meditation, or people.  To the Soul any thing or person that takes energy from them and our focus off the fact that we have a soul wanting to live in our body at this exact moment in time in this particular place, in order to fulfill the mission that our soul has come to accomplish is a threat to their survival.

Once we understand this very basic multidimensional concept we can take steps to prevent our Soul from having to resort to these measures.  Below is general information about the Soul.  The solutions to blocked abundance are found in these principles. It is my great hope that you will find your solution and once applied, begin to experience the financial abundance along with the joy of abundant self-love you desire.

Five things your SOUL wants you to know

1. "I am real! I do exist and I want an honest continuous committed relationship with you".

For many years we have heard of the concept of a soul and some of us have spent time working through issues in order to heal the wounds of our past lives.  Once completed we walk away feeling somewhat better yet still unable to feel that profound sense of self love, and real spiritual wholeness, we still feel something is missing.

Sadly we realize, there must be more healing to do, more work to be done and so we continue our search, aching from an emptiness to fill. The answer is simple, the need for a continuous, honest, committed daily relationship with our soul.

The soul doesn’t care if you focus on other things or people as long as the Soul is constantly kept informed and consulted, so that ones actions and words always have constructive purpose.

 

2. "Your Soul is Your Physical Body".

As we explained on the "Health & Diet" page of heavensregister, a persons physical body is a direct reflection of ones soul. Ones soul is speaking to us through the language of physical and emotional sensations.

Now, how does this relate to an abundance block?  If you are simultaneously being blocked financially and experiencing physical disease or pain, look up the disease or location of the pain, take the probable cause and read it as your SOUL speaking to you. 

Example:  Knee problems - means stubborn ego, inability to bend, fear and inflexibility to move forward.  Using the "Souls language", we see that the Soul saying, “I am in fear and choose to be inflexible and unbending in my resistance to the change you want to make.  And, I won’t feel safe changing directions and will continue to resist until you make it safe for me to do so”. Once a person has developed the attitude to trust and change, ones soul feels the spiritual changes, one will then be given the courage, confidence and healing to move forward.

 

3. "I am your partner so please discuss changes with me before you make them and make it safe!"

Since your Soul sees itself as your physical body and therefore as a partner in this incarnation, he/she deserves to be consulted before any big changes are undertaken. 

Only when a great blockage and frustration happens this catalyses a person to SCREAM-OUT in prayer and to then see why attempts to move forward were being thwarted at every turn.  The answer is simple, to realize that one should always consulted ones Soul and ask if the changes or actions are correct or purposeful, in alignment with ones individual souls pathway.

One of the things we forget when moving along life’s path whether we are spiritual or not is that even though we may be ready to make a change in our life, our SOUL may not be. 

If our soul is not ready, it is because we have not discussed it with him/her and/or done anything, such as making agreements, taking precautions and caring for the emotional or physical pain that may come as a result of the change.

 

4."It ’s my job to protect you and keep you happy". 

The Soul believes that his/her purpose for existing is to keep you safe and happy.  That means safe from emotional/physical pain and happy at all times.  We all have a limit of emotional/physical pain that we are willing to consciously feel. We unconsciously teach that limit to our Soul.

As a result, he/she knows that anything beyond that limit must be stuffed so that we don’t feel it.  When things are going well that is easy to do but when fear enters into the picture things take a different turn. 

When you are threatened in any way either physically, emotionally or mentally, the Soul goes into Superman mode in order to protect you.  At times this means that he/she will use fear as a tool to keep you safe.  At those times the soul flips into his/her dark side and uses the abilities attributed to the lower or male chakras to protect.  This “Dark” side is synonymous with the Ego, anger and even violence. 

Protection in "Soul language" can take many forms, a gut feeling of “watch out” or “something doesn’t feel right” to blinding you to an opportunity, or at the extreme, developing a fatal physical, emotional or mental illness. 

In between are addictions (depression, the great emotional mediator, drugs, alcohol, work, food etc)…tools the lower level of the Soul, uses to keep you preoccupied so that you won’t do the thing that will cause, in her/his mind, your demise.

 

5.What you think about yourself, you think about me.

Our Soul hears every thought, feeling and word we speak about ourselves. 

That’s why the key to changing one’s self image lies with the Soul.  Talking to ones Soul using positive self-talk backed up by agreements and follow through actions will change self-hatred, low self-esteem and self- worth into self-love. (As we discussed in breaking the destructive brainwashing cycle).

If your Soul feels that an opportunity for financial abundance will in anyway cause him/her to be blamed, he/she will block it.  For example, if your mission is to become a teacher but you are always rescuing others, your Soul will block any efforts you make to set up a business or get a job working for someone else. 

Why? Because your Soul knows that you incorrectly get your love and acceptance from giving too much energy to others (being the selfless martyr to freeloaders!) in an attempt to fulfill their needs and don’t leave enough in reserve for yourself, nor do you truly give yourself (your Soul) love and acceptance. So your Soul creates draining and abusively destructively situations, until it comes a point of an EMERGENCY, when you "wake-up" to what you have done and CHANGE, thereby breaking the abusive destructive cycle and start living the creative loving and constructive cycle.

Living in the purposeful loving and creatively constructive cycle of life will enliven a person, to the extent that the Soul and Body live in harmony and love to live in the present situation at this very moment in time . This "grounds" a person and enables a unity and feeling of wholeness to succeed in ones soul mission of life. Enabling the blocks to be dissolved and success to flow through ones Soul to this physical world.

Conclusion

In closing, if you want to experience great abundance, get "heart connected to Earth", love being here because when you love Earth, you love your Soul, and love GOD who created this earth experience for our soul. 

Not only will you begin to experience financial abundance, and be able to accomplish spiritually guided goals, you will net the added bonus of the greatest love you have ever known - the LOVE of GOD, becoming at ONE with GOD, loving compassionately, in the same way that GOD loves and sustains each and every living entity in the Universe with amazing compassion .

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This page is part of the second section of our website called

"The Pathway" to enlightenment

This page is part of our new second section called "THE PATHWAY" taken from Sefer Shinuyim - Book of Change and Sefer Tikunim - The book of Corrections, this section explains with a small key of knowledge, one will have the ability to transform and change ones thoughts and heal ones soul. This is the reason every person came to this earth - to CHANGE.

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