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Destiny הכל בידי שמים
ארבעים יוֹם קוֹדם יצירת הולד בת קוֹל יוֹצאת ואוֹמרת
בת פלוֹני לפלוֹני בית פלוֹני לפלוֹני שׁדה פלוֹני לפלוֹני
"Forty days before a person is conceived into this world, it is announced in Heaven - the Divine Spirit World, that the daughter of this man is destined to marry this man, the house in this place - is destined for their home, and this field (livelihood / business / profession) is destined for this person". Talmud Sota 2a. Everything is decreed in our "Destiny הכל בידי שמים" as a Divine plan for each and every person in the Divine Heavenly records
The explanation to the concept of 40 days before conception as taught in Raziel Hamalach and Sefer Shinuyim is on the "spiritual birthday page ".
This is the original text in Hebrew - Aramaic from the Babylonian Talmud Sotah 2a .
Foundation of Believing in "Destiny הכל בידי שמים".
The fundamental basis of understanding and believing in this fact that everything is really is decreed in our "Destiny הכל בידי שמים" in the Divine Heavenly records is to first believe in GOD.
Until a person starts to "think spiritually", having the innate feeling that there must a GOD and there must exist a spiritual world from where our souls came from and to where are souls go to after this physical life has ended then a person will continue existing a superficial life like a wandering sheep believing that everything that occurs is simply a haphazard misfit of events, situations and circumstances, created by themselves and others - which is simply ridiculous as this world would truly descend into chaos and self-destruction if that were so !
It is ONLY the fact that everything is decreed in our "Destiny הכל בידי שמים" in the Heavenly records that enables each and everyone to exist and live as individuals and collectively as a society in a whole.
Destiny הכל בידי שמים - Nothing is Wasted
Life Only Gives Your Soul the Experiences it Needs
In the idealistic spiritual realms - "nothing is wasted" - EVERYTHING that occurs in Spirit world and in this physical world happens for a purpose. There is no experience, coincidence, event or happening that is allowed to occur in this physical world unless it is a necessity for our soul to learn and change.
This principle of "non-waste" helps us understand that during our physical existence which we call "life", our soul yearns and needs lessons, situations, tests and experiences in order to learn, transform, change, correct past-life mistakes and elevate oneself spiritually.
The spiritual law of Destiny הכל בידי שמים ensures that we all get every experience we need in order for our soul to fulfill its maximum potential. If one doesn't listen to the signs and guidance one is being shown in life, discarding everything that happens in life as mere haphazard occurrence, then one will not learn nor change, and certainly one will be unable to break the cycle of reincarnation successfully .
Being able to break the cycle of ones life and the cycle of reincarnation successfully one first needs to STOP and think carefully at EVERYTHING that occurs in ones life, concentrating on the fact that everything happens for a specific reason. Remember NOTHING happens by "chance", every coincidence is a piece of a DESTINED DIVINE plan for ones soul.
Everything that occurs in your life is talking to you and teaching you a lesson. It is up to you to understand what the lesson is and what is being told to you by Spirit world. Accept the fact that NOTHING happens by chance nor accident - so continually ask yourself - "What do i need to learn from the experience i am going through? Why is this happening to me? & What should i be doing with my life? & What am i being guided to do with my life?"
Lonely - Feelings of Isolation and Alienation ?
There is no need for anyone in this world to feel isolated or alienated; every single person is part of a whole unit - that is ones "soulmate", everything and everyone in this world is simply a half of a whole.
Each person exists a part of a SoulMate unit and also exists as part of a SoulGroup; if one feels isolated, alienated and lonely, this implies that one is not connected nor feeling connected with ones SoulMate or SoulGroup.
Ones Guardian Angels and inner instinctive feelings give a person feelings of "Isolation, Loneliness and Alienation" and hence feelings of "Depression" as a sign of being detached from ones true destined pathway, either one is with the wrong person/people, in the wrong place doing the wrong things for ones soul.
Most people ignore these signs until it becomes overwhelmingly intolerable then it becomes an "EMERGENCY" to break away with many sudden changes.
If one feels lonely, the first step is to PRAY and ask for guidance from GOD and ones Guardian Angels; then eliminate the bad and draining connections from ones life, but most importantly focus on the GOOD connections, which person, place or activity in your life really brings you strong energy of feeling ALIVE?
The search must start in your mind and thoughts for all the good and positive connections with souls and people in ones SoulGroup, then one will be guided to automatically find and be with ones SoulMate. and live in the correct place for ones soul, fulfilling ones true purpose in life.
"Destiny" is an Inexplicable Inner Feeling & Instinct
"Destiny" is an inexplicable feeling that NO ONE else can feel or explain other than YOU. In our generation, many of us have heard amazing stories of soulmate's meeting on the internet, overcoming barriers of each others cultures, countries and societies, with a feeling of knowing this is their destiny and soulmate. For the past 40 years since Air travel, has made the whole World a more accessible place, there are many more people moving to live in the place that they "feel" is right for their souls to live.
These feelings unique to each and every personal; one thing is for 100% certain when a person is away from the wrong place and living in the right place for ones soul with the right soulmate and connecting with people of ones Soulgroup one truly feels the spiritual strength, inner reassurance of "being connected" to GOD, and full of aliveness and happiness.
Signs of Destiny הכל בידי שמים
According to the Tana Devei Eliyahu, there is a Spiritual Law is that every situation and event in this life comes in pairs; this is meant to act as a SIGN Of DESTINY.
At the same time one is connecting with ones SoulGroup; ones Soulmate and finding the right place to live for ones soul, simultaneously something good will be happening in your life. It could be a new job, new business or new home. Be assured that there will be a sign, this is simply spiritual law of duality and pairs.
Destiny is a Key to Open the Door
To open an enormous door, you only need a tiny key. To solve a baffling mystery, you only need a small clue. Finding your true destined destiny is finding one of the KEYS of Life.
To open the enormous door of your destiny, all you really require is a little piece of information. A word or two from the right person. An idea from the right part of your own imagination. An insight from the right section of the library. A seemingly trivial discovery is about to make a very big difference.
All this starts with a sincere prayer and many tears, as we know in "kabbala" crying opens up a direct link to GOD, to the Eternal Divine Spirit World of Souls, as all prayers are answered with tears, by crying many tears one can actually make miracles !
This is especially true if one feels that one has gone away from ones destiny, by praying and crying; this is always an instinctive feeling for everyone who feels lonely, isolated and depressed to CRY. A tear is the KEY to OPEN THE DOOR and will start your journey to find your true destiny.
"Destiny is Written in the Heavenly Records"
The study of astrology and palmistry, teaches and reassures that everyone's DESTINY is mapped out for you, and there is no need to be sad, depressed or give-up on life.
Let the past remain in the past and consider that TODAY is the 1st day of the rest of your life ! Smile and be Happy ! As soon as one has found ones true destined pathway there will never be a need to ever be sad or depressed ever again in ones life.
הכל בידי שמים חוץ מיראת שמים
The Future is already Written !
The Talmud Sotah 49b explains many signs that will occur during the last generation. This is reference to the times known as "Moshiach" which is the time when the veil between this Physical World and Spiritual world will be removed and everyone will see everything clearly.
The only thing that isn't written is our attitude and the way we handle everything that occurs; the freewill choice is ours to accept everything that happens with calmness and reassurance or to get upset. If we truly trust in GOD then we will never get flustered nor upset by anything that happens in life.
Prophets & The Future
"Everything is written" in destiny; as explained on "seeing the future" from Sefer Chochmas Yad, the only reason we are given signs, scriptures, prophets and spiritual writings is to inform us of the future in order to reassure everyone that DESTINY is written in the Divine Heavenly records.
It is written and given by prophets to give everyone a proof that there is a GOD; an eternal DIVINE Creator of the whole Universe and an Eternal Divine Spiritual World of Souls. Everything has a purpose and plan in accordance with the will of GOD.
May it be the will of GOD that we see everything that happens in our lives for good and be able to see the signs in our life to find our true destined pathway.
SoulGroup is the 1st Key
The True Soulmate
In the passage of Talmud Sotah 2a at the top of this page, it teaches that destiny has designated each individual with a soulmate. With that soulmate comes a "package" of a home to live and profession/job/purpose in life . The spiritual and physical energy of planet earth resonates to the number TWO and if you think carefully, everything on our planet comes in pairs.
Even the Earth itself is paired with the Moon, the Earth needs the Moon to exist both physically and spiritually, in the renewal of energies monthly and daily tidal flows ( the magnetic pull of the Moons energy causes high and low tides - the Earth needs CHANGE to exist) .
The emphasis and importance of finding ones true soulmate is the key to success in life . The two halves that make the whole, once together they can lead a fulfilling and purposeful life - "their destiny". Having the "wrong half" means one does not have the key to fulfill ones true destined purpose in life. Without the right "key", ones life will seem frustrating and unlucky - like stuck in a locked room full of closed doors . It maybe nice few hours, but would be frustratingly painful to remain there for the rest of ones life !
Taking someone else's soulmate leads to complications and problems in life, which in our modern generation has lead to unparalleled level of divorce . Which is a blessing, that people can undo a serious mistake they have made in this life . But has consequences that society takes a flippant attitude to the seriousness of living with the wrong soulmate . It not only damages the couples souls, but hurts the two "lost" souls whom are waiting for their true soulmates .
Getting the wrong soulmate will lead to flirting with others
The Rabbis 2000 years ago, chose to write this passage discussing "destiny" in the Talmud Tractate/Mesechta of "Sotah" . Sotah is the name given to a woman whom has been unfaithful to her husband . She is a married woman whom has flirted, even talked lovingly to another man, kissed or actually made love . The Rabbis discuss the origins of why a woman has been unfaithful with her husband .
The conclusive facts, are that if the woman was with her destined soulmate, her rightful man . (likewise if a man is with his true and correct destined soulmate ), then making love and being together they would feel wholesome . They will never conflict with each other, as each feels the pain and sadness, love and happiness of the other person. They think in the same harmonious way, and very often are so intune with each other, that they know exactly what the other one is thinking. This is because they are indeed each others - "other half".
If a woman and man have flirted, this is simply a result of the fact that they are currently with someone whom is NOT their souls destiny. Someone who is not making their life wholesome, but is in fact conflicting with their soul. The wrong partner will make each feel depressed, sad and lonely even in a relationship, and will resort to suppressing their inner feelings by drinking alcohol or smoking cigarettes, the general signs of depression and lack of loving vitality etc., This is simply because they may have married the wrong person, for the wrong reasons, for example lustful sexual instincts or for security, money and wealth, etc .... these bad relationships will never last even with all the "marriage counseling", as spiritually their souls are in pain as they are not with their true soulmate.
As we wrote on the introduction page of this website, Reb Yehonosson Eibeschitz explains that the thoughts and intentions at the beginning of any venture in life, set the foundations. If they are truthful, sincere and honorable - they will have success, if they are based on lies - they will fail .
Deepdown a person whom has married the wrong person for "non spiritual" reasons knows the truth, but suppress the feelings of truth, as modern society together with unspiritual "counselors" and "shrinks" - Psychologists, find it easier to cover up deceit and lies with more deceit and lies, instead of learning to be honest and tell the truth.
Sadly in our generation, so many young people make the mistake of marrying for the wrong reasons, which inevitably leads to divorce. The simple sign in "knowing" that one maybe in the wrong relationship, is a fact that one will be adamant about the choice of NOT WANTING CHILDREN. The true purpose of marrying is to make love and have children, having transformed into maturity of an adult, to want to GIVE instead of TAKING. If indeed one is with someone just for "sex" and using contraception because one does not want children "yet", this is indicative that this is NOT the destined soulmate. That relationship is symbolic of wanting death, waste and destruction - a deadly cycle of taking, blocking and draining energy, instead of growing up and maturing to learn to create love with a desire to GIVE, creating life and being a part of the continuity of life on earth with sincere love .
Growing up
The basic transition of childhood to adulthood, means that one has matured to become a kind generous GIVER, instead of being a TAKER . The instinctive nature of a child is to TAKE even steal . As a responsible and correct adult , one has transformed to GIVE .
In a normal good society and brought up by loving parents, everyone learns the lessons of giving and creating through LOVE, thanks, kindness and appreciation by the age of 18 . These are the signs of true maturity and adulthood .
Some people sadly never mature or grow up, even at the age of 30 and older they still expect to take from others, acting like a spoilt impetulant child, relying on their parents for energy or as a parasite - stealing and taking from other men / women .
Growing up means to learn that, by being kind, thoughtful, generous, saying THANK YOU and loving unconditionally, one has actually learnt that there is no shortage in life's energy, that there is no need to take or steal energy from others . As the act of true love and kindness actually creates energy.
Within the concept of generosity and act of giving, ones soul receives life energy, supporting one to continue giving which actually creates a loving desire to want to give to others. Most women once they have given birth to one child, suddenly get a special magical energy and desire to want many children - that is a simple spiritual fact of life ! The more one gives - the more one desires to give, and more importantly the more one is blessed by spirit world to be able to give .
EVERYONE HAS A PERFECT DESTINED SOULMATE
This is an important fact - as one needs to firmly believe that every person has a loving soulmate . There is no need to steal someone else's, if one does not marry for the sincere reason of wanting to be with ones true soulmate, in order to fulfill ones life purpose together, then with the wrong partner relationship will end in sadness, tragedy or divorce .
How To Find Ones Soulmate
Please read the full explanation "How to find ones Soulmate" from Sefer Shinuyim and Sefer Tikunim, with the prayers and spiritual knowledge of understanding how to find ones true soulmate.
INEXPLICABLE INSTINCT
The foundation must be set, firstly by praying and being determined that you ONLY want your soulmate and not someone else's. As discussed on the page "ability to change" crying and praying always helps . When your prayers will be answered, and you will first communicate, speak or see your true soulmate, you and ONLY both of you will know . Both of you will have a warm feeling of aliveness, that one feels when finally coming home after a long journey . In fact the feeling is even stronger than that warmth . Every single cell in your body will wake up and come alive from the energy of connecting with ones true soulmate .
This is destiny of your soul, a feeling that NO ONE else can feel or explain . In our generation, many of us have heard amazing stories of soulmates meeting on the internet, overcoming barriers of each others cultures, countries and societies, with a feeling of knowing this is their destiny and soulmate .
Once you have been touched by this feeling of meeting your true soulmate, everything in your life will start to feel at ease, if you follow your pathway with truthful honest instincts then everything good will start to "happen" for you . Your soul will finally feel at peace with true love, a sense of "destiny" and a purposeful life .
There will also be a SIGN, according to the Tana Devei Eliyahu, the spiritual law is that every situation and event in this life comes in pairs, at the same time one is meeting ones soulmate, simultaneously something good will be happening in your life . It could be a new job, new business or new home . Be assured that there will be a sign, this is simply spiritual law . Ask every happily married couple - they will all have stories of "Divine coincidences" that happened when they first met and a lovely sign from heaven ! The energy and connection with ones true soulmate unlocks the key to ones closed room of life .
Destiny is a Key
To open an enormous door, you only need a tiny key. To solve a baffling mystery, you only need a small clue. Finding your soulmate is like finding this key of life .
To open the enormous door of your destiny, all you really require is a little piece of information. A word or two from the right person. An idea from the right part of your own imagination. An insight from the right section of the library. A seemingly trivial discovery is about to make a very big difference.
All this starts with a sincere prayer and a few tears, as we know in "kabbala" crying opens up a direct link to spirit world and all prayers are answered with tears . This especially true if one feels that one has gone away from ones destiny, by praying and crying, there is a spiritual guarantee that you can return to your true destiny, that is the purpose of your guardian angels to always guide you to your destiny, even if you have been "side-tracked" and wandered off from your destined pathway . That too is destiny, difficult lessons that your soul needed and wanted to learn .
"DESTINY of SPIRITUAL GROWTH from 2004 - 2011"
Even the precise timing for spiritual understanding knowledge to become popular for the next 7 years as the planet Uranus moved on December 30th 2003 into Spiritually minded Pisces . Which means the focus is on a personal, soulful and individual spiritual development, the study and understanding of spirituality, life-after-death, and the existence of a spirit world, hence the phenomenal interest in Kabbalah, Reincarnation and everything truly spiritual without the manmade fabricated laws, materialism and meaningless nuances.
The major religions have lost their monopoly on religion because of the hypocrisy, animosity and hatred . Whereas, spirituality of life is the fact that God is love . The divine Godly energy that creates and sustains this planet, the solar system and all of the spirit realms is LOVE energy . For the next 7 years the human spiritual development will be away from traditional religions and towards an individual approach and belief in GOD . Each person will develop their own spiritual understanding, love and appreciation of GOD and spirit world .
Uranus in idealistic and creative spiritual pisces means that the energy will turn all spiritual and creative people into idealistic and loving people, whom will give of their time for free, a desire to teach other people out of a deep spiritual love to help others.
This time will see a "spiritual essence" of spirit world impregnating itself into this physical world, in that the same way that everything in Spirit world is communicated through LOVE energy and the DIVINE energy of LOVE and compassion, completely unconditional and divorced from anything materialistic. In fact the further from materialism then the more spirituality will be innately present. As the Torah says, "One who is wealthy and attached to materialism cannot enter the kingdom of spiritual heaven". Hence look forward to an idealistic time, which we are already seeing by the availability of knowledge free on the internet !
Just consider that 7 years ago in 1996, did any of us know about the true growth and potential of the internet . And yet all of our lives in the whole world have been transformed by this amazing tool of communication and encyclopedia of knowledge. Likewise in 7 years time we will all look back and see the amazing spiritual transformation that is destined to happen .
The last time Uranus was in Pisces was in 1919-1929, which was a time of an affluent thriving modernizing generation . Post World War One, after the hatred, death and carnage of war, gave people the peace of mind and love, to develop and change their lives through creativity and invention . Similarly, the transformation we shall undergo will be away from rigid rules of hateful traditional religions, having experienced some really awful murderous acts, especially by hateful fanatics.
The world hopefully will transform and move towards a world of peace, love, harmony and acceptance of all of humanity as children of the same GOD of love. With all spiritual knowledge never being charged for by money making "charlatans", benefiting out of other peoples misery, and only the genuine good spiritual advisors giving knowledge completely free.
That is indeed the ideal of the "times of Moshiach" - for all nations to live in peace - with no more wars or hatred - only kindness, peace and love .
Astrology will provide you with information you need to expand your awareness of your specific life's purpose. Your chart is unique to you, as no one else was born on your birthday, at the exact time and place of birth . Even if there were other babies born in the same hospital, the chances are that they certainly would not have been conceived at the same time . So your energy from astrology is unique to you .
Palmistry is the knowledge of reading the unique lines on the palms of ones hand, with the focus to re-assure that there is purpose in life, that love and personal happiness are attainable . Palmistry is the knowledge that will help you comprehend, that the lines on your hand contain the blueprint of your soul, mapping out your souls journey in this life, the abilities and tools you have been blessed with in order to accomplish your life's mission with purpose, soul satisfaction and fulfillment.
The lines on your hand are the most precise lines anywhere on your body, and are specifically related to the qualities of your life and your life's experiences, the life line, head line and heart line give the general guideline, the other lines give more details . The more sensitive one is, the more facets and life experiences one decided to come to earth to work on, then the more lines one will have.
The feeling of traveling along the correct pathway of your destiny is an amazing aliveness and gift. In reflection and hindsight it makes all the pain worthwhile, as it gives a person that "knowing" feeling that the new pathway is indeed the correct pathway. The past was a destined mistake. This experience in itself is a reason why your soul came to "earth- school" to learn .
Summary of "Destiny"
The basic life rules of destiny, is that life is a journey from childhood to adulthood, learning to transform from a "taker" into a "giver" and "creator" of loving energy .
Then "destiny" helps you find the missing piece of your life, your "other half " of you , the soulmate of your soul and life . In finding your soulmate, the "package" of life is complete and life "happens" for you . A home to live and your joint purpose in life . Each and every person has a soulmate, a destiny that is waiting for their soul to live . To be able to fulfill ones unique purpose with ones maximum potential with ones soulmate . No one should be alone - that is not the purpose of life on an earth of pairs !